Helping Hotwives and Cuckolds have successful meets with Bulls.
Everyone in the hotwife/cuckold scene are there to live out their own fantasies. You should always treat the Bulls you meet with the same respect that you expect them to show you.
Always reply to messages sent to you. A polite "No thank-you" is better than no response at all, The Bull you reject today may meet the requirements of a future fantasy, so let them down gently.
Rejection: If you are rejected by a Bull, move on. Bulls are in the lifestyle for their fun as well as yours. Do not get upset or question why you have not been accepted as a playmate. Everyone has the right, and is expected to say No to anyone at anytime if they are not interested in the person or the activity on offer.
Define your Boundaries: Before meeting with a Bull the Hotwife and Cuckold should define what is expected by each other and the Bull and set any limitations that they feel are needed.
The Hotwife should set out what she expects from her new Bull before the meeting. The Bull should be prepared to perform to her rules and stay within any limits on activities agreed with the Hotwife before meeting .
Remember that not all Bulls are Bi, so if your fantasies involve any male on male activity make sure that the Bull is aware and happy to be involved.
When you arrange to meet a Bull, turn up. People in the adult lifestyles talk to each other. A Hotwife who is a no-show without calling to cancel in advance is rarely given a second chance. If you are not going to be able to make the date, give the Bull a call far enough in advance that he does not travel to the date location. Don't send him an email, he may not have access to email in his current location.
Failure to notify the Bull that you need to cancel is not only bad manners, but could make it difficult for you to meet other Bulls. The guys do talk to each other, they know which couples are real and which are timewasters. It could make it difficult to find Bulls in the future.
Be fragrant! Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or un-fresh breath. Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at play date.
Only Do What is Fun for You. Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. If you have any doubts about the Bull talk to him on the telephone, then arrange your first meet in a neutral location where you can leave the meeting safely.
Never involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.
Alcohol:: Quite a lot of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Over indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in sexual activity with other people, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle.
Recreational Drugs: With the exception of ED drugs such as Viagra, Cialis or Levetra will not improve your sexual abilities or the buzz from the interaction. A spaced out lover is no fun at all. Whilst under the influence you may think you are being the worlds best lover, but you are probably being a dud! (We have arranged hundreds of parties and watched and interacted with thousands of people, you can always tell who is spaced out).
So Enjoy Yourself: Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own and your Cuckolds sexuality and enjoy playing with your new Bull with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude.Join The Fun Return to Hotwife Etiquette