Contact Etiquette

Creating and responding to profiles/advertisments.


Contact Etiquette

A few basic guidelines for creating and responding to hotwife contact ads.

Cuckold Couples Profiles:

Make your profile informative and interesting. Explain if there are any kinks or play scenes you and your partner are into.

If your fetish involves your Cuckold having genital contact with your potential Bulls, let them know. Some guys are OK for other guys to fluff them and clean them, other guys are not.

Please respond to all e-mails you receive from potential Bulls.

Most of them will have spent time plucking up courage to write to you, and time thinking of the right thing to say to get you to notice them.

If you like the sound of the message the Bull has sent, and his fantasies seem to match with yours write back arranging to talk on the phone.

If you are declining to meet a respondent you do not need to write a long message, a short note saying something along the lines of "Thank you for your response, but you do not match the requirements of our current fantasy, better luck next time". This will at least let the respondent know that you have considered them and that they have been noticed. I know that I for one check my mail box eagerly after I send every message, hoping that someone has written back to me.

Bulls Profiles:

Make your profile informative and interesting. Explain if there are any kinks or play scenes you want to explore, as well as any you are not interested in exploring or being involved in.

If your sexuality allows you to be involved in having any genital contact with the Cuckold Husband of the Hotwife, say so in your profile. Some Cuckolds want to be allowed to fluff the Bull or to lick them clean after you have fucked their Hotwife.

Please respond to all e-mails you receive from potential Cuckold Couples and Hotwives.

Most of them will have spent time searching through the hundreds of potential Bulls and then plucking up courage to write to you, taking time to think of the right thing to say to you so you notice them.

If you are accepting the offer of a meeting write a considered response, perhaps explaining any fantasies and telling them how your fantasies match with theirs.

If you are declining to mee it does not need to be a long message, a short note saying something along the lines of "Thank you for your response, but you do not match the requirements of my current fantasy, better luck next time". This will at least let the couple know that you have considered them and that they have been noticed. I know that I for one check my mail box eagerly after I send every message, hoping that someone has written back to me.

When Responding:

Always be polite.

Bulls, don't just send a message saying "I want to Fuck you" or other similar thoughtless one liners. Any self respecting partners should resp[ond with a "Go fuck yourself"

Always read the profile of the people you are writing to. If they are looking for a Bisexual Bull and you are straight, it is pointless writing to them as tyou will not get a meet.

If the Hotwife is looking for a 6 foot black man and you are 5foot 6inch White boy don't waste your time writing, or their time reading your message.

In your message tell the advertiser what you like about their profile.

Tell them how you think you will meet their requirements.

If you enclose a picture show your face - most people like to see the person, rather than a shot of genitalia. If they like the look of you, they will then ask for another picture, a nude one if they want it. (some people do want nude pictures from the start, but they will usually say so in their profile).

Keep the language clean, match your response to the ad. Don't go straight in with a hardcore letter.

If you are turned down by an advertiser, don't keep contacting them - you are not going to make any friends by being a nuisance or abusive. Just move on to the next advertiser.

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