Everyone in the hotwife/cuckold scene are there to live out their own fantasies. You should always treat the Hotwives and Cuckolds you meet with the same respect that you expect them to show you.

Remember that the Cuckold Husband is part of the Hotwife's fantasy. If you offend or upset him the Hotwife is unlikely to meet you again and may terminate the date you are on right away.

Hotwives are not cheating on the Cuckold, they are both engaged in making a shared fantasy a reality. You are responsible for helping them enjoy their fantasy fulfillment.

Always reply to messages sent to you. A polite "No thank-you" is better than no response at all, The Hotwife or Cuckold Couple you reject today may meet the requirements of a future fantasy, so let them down gently.

Rejection: If you are rejected by a Hotwife or Cuckold Couple, move on. Cuckolds and Hotwives are in the lifestyle for their fun as well as yours. Do not get upset or question why you have not been accepted as a playmate. Everyone has the right, and is expected to say No to anyone at anytime if they are not interested in the person or the activity on offer.

Define your Boundaries: Before meeting with a Bull the Hotwife and Cuckold should have defined what is expected by each other and by you the Bull and set any limitations that they feel are needed.

The Hotwife should confirm with you what she expects from you as her Bull before the meeting. You, as a Bull should be prepared to perform to her rules and stay within any limits on activities agreed with the Hotwife before your meeting.

Remember that not all Cuckolds are Bi, so if your fantasies involve any male on male activity make sure that the Cuckold is aware and happy to be touched by you. Unexpected touching by a Bull can lead to immediate termination of the play date or even unpleasant physical contact!

When you arrange to meet a Cuckold Couple or Hotwife turn up. Couples in the adult lifestyles talk to each other. A Bull who is a no-show without calling to cancel in advance is rarely given a second chance. If you are not going to be able to make the date, give the Cuckold or Hotwife a call far enough in advance that they do not set out to travel to the date location. Don't send them an email, they may not have access to email in their current location, texts are not a good idea, as not everyone monitors their messages.

Failure to notify the Cuckold or Hotwife that you need to cancel is not only bad manners, but could make it difficult for you to meet other Hotwives. The Couples do talk to each other, they know which Bulls are real and which are timewasters. Being a time waster once will probably make it difficult to find couples or ladies to meet with in the future.

Be fragrant! Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or un-fresh breath. Even if you shower yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at play date.

Only Do What is Fun for You. Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. If you have any doubts about the boundaries of the play date talk to the couple and confirm on the telephone, then arrange your first meet in a neutral location where you can leave the meeting safely.

Never involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.

Alcohol:: Quite a lot of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Over indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in sexual activity with other people, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle.

Recreational Drugs: With the exception of ED drugs such as Viagra, Cialis or Levetra will not improve your sexual abilities or the buzz from the interaction. A spaced out lover is no fun at all. Whilst under the influence you may think you are being the worlds best lover, but you are probably being a dud! (We have arranged hundreds of parties and watched and interacted with thousands of people, you can always tell who is spaced out).

So Enjoy Yourself: Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy playing with your new Hotwife or Cuckold Couple with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude.

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